Finding Your Special Sauce: What Exceptional Performance Looks Like for Founders and CEOs

I was inspired to write this article ahead of speaking to a room of high-velocity European founders in London. As I prepared for the session, I realised I wasn’t really thinking in terms of isolated ideas, but rather a set of patterns I keep seeing repeat across founders at this level. When you zoom out, these patterns help explain why some CEOs consistently scale effectively, while others, despite being equally intelligent and well-resourced, hit an invisible ceiling.

For context: Over the last 25 years, I’ve had the privilege of working inside and alongside high-growth technology companies in the US and Europe, both as an operator and later as a coach. During that time, I’ve partnered with over 300 founders and accumulated over 10,000 hours of direct CEO coaching. That exposure, across so many different companies and stages, creates something quite rare: deep pattern recognition.

That’s what I want to explore in this article.

A Three-Layer Model of CEO Performance

One of the most useful ways to think about CEO performance is that it comes from three interacting layers, and if I miss any one of them, I end up misunderstanding the person I’m working with.

The first layer is what I call DNA: your natural wiring.

This is the part that is most deeply ingrained, the natural talents, preferences, and strengths that shape how you think, lead, and perform. You were born with these characteristics. They influence almost everything you do, how you process information, make decisions, interact with people, and where your energy naturally flows. 

I often use elite sport as a way of explaining this. Soccer superstar, Lionel Messi, didn’t “learn” his extraordinary vision, balance, or instinct for the game in the conventional sense. He spent thousands of hours refining and maximising something that was already there. His greatness came not just from hard work, but from understanding and developing his natural gifts. The same principle applies to CEOs.

Over the years, I have worked with hundreds of leaders and I have yet to find a single “perfect” CEO profile. Some are visionary and inspirational. Others are analytical and methodical. Some thrive on relationships and influence, while others excel through deep expertise and exceptional judgment. Each can be highly successful, but they achieve that success in very different ways.

The mistake many leaders make is trying to become someone they are not. They attempt to lead according to a textbook, a popular leadership trend, or by copying another successful CEO whose natural strengths are completely different from their own. The result is often frustration, inconsistency and burnout.

The real work is to understand your own wiring. What are the talents that come naturally to you? Where do you create energy rather than consume it? Which situations bring out your best thinking and performance? Equally important - where are your natural limitations and what support structures do you need around you?

The most effective CEOs are those who become deeply self-aware, lean into their strengths and build teams that complement their weaknesses. Like elite athletes, they stop fighting their nature and instead learn how to channel it toward extraordinary performance.

The second layer is Environment - an often underestimated influence.

This includes the surroundings you grew up in, the education, opportunities, challenges and support you received during your formative years. But it also includes the environment you operate in today, such as the stage of your company, the quality of your leadership team, the expectations of your board and broader economic forces.

Two CEOs with very similar natural abilities can produce dramatically different outcomes depending on the environment they are operating in. Some environments amplify a leader’s strengths, while others quietly suppress or drain them.

A visionary founder who thrives on innovation may flourish in an early-stage startup, but struggle in a mature business that requires operational discipline and process. Conversely, a CEO who excels at scaling systems and execution may feel constrained in an environment that demands constant experimentation and reinvention.

In startups and high-growth companies, where the pace of change is relentless, alignment between leader and environment matters far more than people realise. The environment evolves as the business scales, the team changes, and market expectations reset and with it, the leadership approach required to succeed must also evolve.

This brings us to the third layer: Application.

This is how you execute the role of CEO on a day-to-day basis. It is where most leadership development tends to focus, but it only makes sense once you understand the first two layers. Application includes how you make decisions, lead people, communicate, structure execution, allocate resources, and prioritise what matters most. It is leadership made visible through practice.

Within this third layer, there is a useful distinction I often make between what I call table stakes and special sauce.

Table stakes are the capabilities that every CEO must develop to some degree, regardless of their natural wiring.

These are the fundamental skills required to lead an organisation effectively, such as setting direction, making decisions, communicating clearly, holding people accountable, allocating resources etc. They may not come naturally to every leader, but they are non-negotiable. Without them, it is difficult to build a healthy, scalable business.

Most CEO development focuses almost exclusively on these capabilities - and for good reason: They are observable, teachable and relatively easy to measure. They represent the baseline competence required to perform the role. But table stakes alone rarely explain exceptional performance.

The most exceptional CEOs possess something else: a unique set of strengths that allows them to create disproportionate value. This is what I call their special sauce.

It might be a leader's extraordinary ability to inspire people around a compelling vision, instilling in the team and investors a deeply emotional connection to the mission. Or a rare talent for spotting market shifts before competitors see them, an intuitive sense of where value is moving. Some leaders have an exceptional ability to recruit world-class talent, consistently attracting people who raise the bar of the entire organisation. 

This “special sauce” almost always feels unusually effortless both to the CEO and those around them. It is where others consistently seek you out for a specific type of thinking, or where you create disproportionate impact in a particular domain without visible strain. In the same way that exceptional athletes make extraordinary performance look effortless, exceptional CEOs often appear to operate with a sense of ease in the domains where they are at their best. What looks natural from the outside is usually the result of a deep alignment between their wiring, experience, and focus.

Most importantly, none of this is random. It’s an interaction between your natural wiring and the experiences that have shaped you throughout your life. Your DNA gives you certain predispositions, but your environment, challenges, failures, and formative wins refine and amplify specific strengths. The result is something highly specific to you: a way of seeing, deciding or influencing that is impossible for others to replicate. The qualities that make one leader exceptional are often very different from those that make another successful.

This is why the work of self-discovery matters so much. You look for your “special sauce” in repetition: where do people consistently come to you for help? Where does it feel easy for you? Where do you feel most alive and effective, even under pressure? And just as importantly, where do you consistently create value that others would struggle to replicate, even if they understood the task?

There is one last thought I want to leave you with. I’m often asked: if I could give only one piece of advice on what exceptional performance looks like for a CEO, what would it be? 

Here it is:

“You cannot change your natural wiring. You can never fully control your environment. But you can, and must, commit to relentless self-improvement and radical ownership”

Elite athletes such as Lionel Messi operate in a constant cycle of reflection, adjustment and refinement. They study in excruciating detail every performance, searching for tiny marginal gains. They take full responsibility for how they prepare, how they perform, and how they adapt as the game changes around them.

Because of that, they are never static. They are always evolving, refining how they execute their role, adapting to shifts in environment and learning how to better express their natural wiring under extreme pressure.

Over time, that mindset becomes the real edge: the defining characteristic of elite CEOs, a constant refinement in how they perform, adapt and lead under pressure.

Reflection questions :

1. Which parts of being a CEO feel almost effortless, yet consistently produce your best results? What does that tell you about how you’re wired as a CEO?

2. To what extent is your current environment setting you up to perform at your best? Where might it be creating friction that you’ve simply learned to tolerate?

3. What single aspect of your CEO performance would yield the greatest gains if you dedicated the majority of your training and focus to it right now?

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